The Power of Vulnerability: A Lesson from the Rebbe

Sometimes, a simple story captures the essence of a great man.

Abe Sacks, a trainer for the famous Harlem Globetrotters, saw a TV program about the Rebbe in the 70s. He was so moved that he decided to visit 770 Eastern Parkway to experience the famous Chassidic gatherings attended by thousands.

Although he did not understand the lengthy discourse the Rebbe delivered, he was captivated by the intermittent lively singing. Abe would sing and clap with unadulterated enthusiasm, attracting a similar response from the Rebbe. 

Abe would continue coming for many years which resulted in a warm and beautiful relationship with the Rebbe.

One day, as the Rebbe was entering his study, Abe approached him and shared that he had been fired as coach of the Globetrotters. The Rebbe looked at Abe and said, “Don’t worry. From now on, you will be my coach.”

Sometime later Abe had joined the afternoon prayers with the Rebbe in attendance.

Abe was deeply engrossed as he recited the silent Amida. While everyone else had completed the service, Abe continued to pray, completely oblivious to his surroundings.

The Rebbe noticed and paused, standing still and observing from a distance as Abe prayed.

After a long period of time, Abe concluded his prayers, and the Rebbe left the room.

A wise person recognizes both their strengths and limitations, fostering profoundly healthy relationships. Only by acknowledging and appreciating one’s weaknesses can one truly invite another person into their life.

If someone feels completely self-sufficient or does not fully acknowledge their limitations, they cannot fully appreciate others’ strengths and contributions. This sense of superiority discourages healthy and productive relationships, which are beneficial to all parties.

A wise person recognizes both their strengths and limitations, fostering profoundly healthy relationships. By acknowledging and appreciating our weaknesses, we invite others into our lives.

If we feel completely self-sufficient or fail to acknowledge our limitations, we cannot fully appreciate others’ strengths and contributions. This can lead to feelings of superiority, discouraging healthy and productive relationships that benefit everyone.

Conversely, embracing our vulnerability allows for healthy, collaborative relationships, encouraging and inspiring others to play their unique roles for the greater good.

In our interconnected and interdependent world, embracing this attitude is essential. The Rebbe lived his life this way, and those who wish to honor his legacy should be inspired to do the same!

Yosef Vogel